My internet girlfriend is going to be 23, i have not met her yet but know home address, plz suggest gift.?

she is my close friend on net since 2 years, she is doing MCA and also a job. i know her home address and basic telephone number, i also talk to her on phone, but never met her because of her hesitation, and also i did not watch her hiding me due to my principle and value based friendship, i wish to gift her at her 23rd birthday, what should i choose, i think to send a Salwar-Kurta cloth through courier, but of which colour and design. I offered her suggestions for her choice, but she said dont send gift but give only your ASHIRWAD, what should i do?